I’m not good enough, I’ll never be thin. He doesn’t love me. They won’t let me be who I am. I’ll never be rich. I’m not a good parent. I’m not a good business woman. Mom likes her best. I never get what I want. I’ll never be happy until “fill in the blank”.

OMG! Does that make you feel as icky as it does me? Whew!

This is THE DEPRESSOR part of The Identity System. It thinks you’re damaged. The Depressor works hard to reinforce that you are not whole and complete, but SEVERELY DAMAGED with NO HOPE for survival.

In rushes THE FIXER. The Fixer is here to repair you because you’re WEAK and DAMAGED. It creates a REQUIREMENT to pull you out of the muck and mire of your mundane existence with the never ending “to do list” and goals like:

I need to be rich. I need to find my soul mate. He’ll love me when. I’ll show them what I’m capable of. I need to be thin. I must do it myself. If I only achieve or when I achieve “fill in the blank” I’ll be happy……..

But, happiness NEVER comes. The Fixer is NEVER satiated. It always needs more, more, more. And, The Depressor is NEVER satisfied. The loop begins again…..

Sound familiar anyone?
 

Its book time again! “Come To Your Senses” by Stanley H Block, M.D. is the Best Book Ever right now. The fabulous SHOCKcoach Philippe Matthews, introduced me to this book, a concept called the Identity System, a method called Bridging, and a rockin’ tool called Mind-Body Mapping. I’m in personal empowerment heaven! 

HERE’S HOW IT GOES. The Identity System is who you think you are! It’s your story. It’s the you that drives your thoughts, feelings, emotions and decisions. It’s your DEFENDER and PROTECTOR.

When operating it cuts you off from Source, contracts your awareness, impairs natural functioning and limits possibilities. In essence, it shuts down your senses. OUCH! Sounds terrible, what does that mean? What is means is you’re locked in a loop and there’s NO WAY OUT. Let’s see how it works.

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Are you fueled with passion or is your passion blocked by fear, confusion and overwhelm?

This week I had the pleasure of engaging in empowering conversation with my Viva Visibility class facilitated by my fabulous Belle with Balls  “bellfriend” Nancy Marmolejo. We discussed PASSION - what it is, what it fuels and what keeps us from living it.

PASSION is your SIZZLE, say’s Nancy. And, PASSION and SIZZLE fuel your VISIBILITY. If you don’t have the visibility you desire in your business, check your passion.

PONDER THESE QUESTIONS:

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Change my reality you say? I gotta do it - ME?

Absolutely yes, YOU get to do it! Pretty cool, huh?

CHANGING YOUR REALITY IS AN INSIDE JOB. It’s a job that can be fun and intriguing if you have the right tools. That’s where I come in. I’m a personal growth and personal empowerment enthusiast. I love self-examination and expanding my awareness to levels that rock my brain. And, I love doing it consciously with ease and flow rather than unconsciously with struggle and resistance.

In my Rebel Belle Tool Kit I have a plethora of tools (programs and products) for changing your reality. But first, you must be willing to make the change. Personal growth and empowerment and changing your reality can be simple in theory. And, can prove slightly challenging in practice. It’s all in attitude and approach. So, before we get started here are a few of The Rebel Belle’s Recommendations for Rockin’ Your Reality and Changin’ Your World!

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Okay…continuing from yesterday….let’s take an example with money…a hot topic. If I create my reality are you telling me that I’m the one creating the experience of being broke, of not having the money I desire to do the things I really, really, really want to do?

The answer is YES. You’re the one creating it. You create your reality by your beliefs, life experiences and expectations.

Let me ask you a few questions. What IS money? What IS success? What IS prosperity?

It IS what it is to YOU!

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“Reality is merely an illusion, albeit a very persistent one.” – Albert Einstein

Are we going to have this “you create your own reality” conversation again? Why, of course we are! It’s one of my favorites. Are you ready to engage? Let’s get goin’….…

Okay, so who do you think creates your reality and world? Why you do of course. You create your reality. You literally create it through your individual perceptions. You create it by the thoughts you hold, the pictures you create in your mind about those thoughts, and the feelings you have in response to those thoughts and pictures. Yes?!?

TRY THIS EXERCISE:

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