Wait…there’s more…to the oh so delightful John Payne…

In addition to being a Family Constellation workshop facilitator and trainer, John is also a well known trance channel. This was my introduction to John back in 1999, when I read his 1st book, The Four Principles of Creation.  It rocked my world!

The book presented a series of questions and answers in conversation style, as posed to John and OMNI, the group consciousness channeled through John. I was touched and inspired by the truth of OMNI’s words. They resonated through every fiber of my being. So much so that I purchased every cassette tape produced at the time, and proceeded to immerse myself in listening, learning and living The Four Principles of Creation:

The 4 Principles of Creation are a part of you. You don’t need to strive for or earn them. A simple shifting of focus allows them into your life.

Love is the complete and total acceptance of what is, it is about allowing. Love is your greatest longing.

Health and Well Being is your natural state of being

Abundance – You are the source of your own abundance. Part of your life’s purpose is to move beyond lack, scarcity and limitation.

Creativity is the very nature of the soul to be creative. Creativity is part of your service to the greater whole.

You have come here to this lifetime, to this experience, not to prove yourself worthy of any God or Higher Power, but to create…and to create with joy! – Omni

Join me and listen, learn and live the full expression of the Four Principles of Creation: Love, Abundance, Health & Well Being, and Conscious Creation. Visit www.fourprinciples.com.

The beautiful and talented Dr. Meg Haworth, model and actress….I love it!

My friend and mentor Dr. Meg Haworth has embraced her human design response mechanism, and is passionately moving in the direction of a new dream.

I invite you to read Dr. Meg’s account of trusting her sacral response. I love it when a strategy works! Life Lessons From Your Soul

To see the fabulous photo’s taken by Starla Fortunado of the gorgeous Meg Haworth, visit her My Space page, pan down on the right and watch the video of her pictures.

Be sure to request your free human design chart and access your strategy for living the life you desire!

Here is my answer, at least for today:

Conditioning, limiting beliefs, belief systems, living unconsciously, not deliberately choosing my thoughts, any and all of the above and more…..

Bottom line - my issues are mine to own. My fears are mine to overcome. My energy and my emotional reaction is my responsibility. And what a gift! How fabulous it is that I have the glorious opportunity to empower my own healing.

Overcoming fears, releasing guilt, shame and blame, consciously choosing to change thoughts and beliefs clears what’s in the way of having the fabulous life you deserve.

You are a magnificent creator, with endless possibility for living the life you desire, squeezing the juice and enjoying the ride, full out and on your terms!

So how do you use the exercise you completed to release your issues?

It’s simple in theory….a little more challenging in practice, with the operative word being practice. What you most need to work on in yourself, you will project onto others. What you don’t embrace in yourself, you won’t embrace in others. What you blame and punish in yourself, you blame and punish in others. What you need others to do in order to feel better is what YOU need to do for YOU.

It’s not your fault that you have these behaviors, however once aware of their existence your behavior is YOUR responsibility. I’m here for ya! I’ve been doing this work for a long, long time and I’m still doing it. Our work is never done.

How you approach the work makes all the difference in the world. Fear is your friend. Issues are your gift. Trigger events are opportunities to be present to every moment. As you do your work, your life will change. No longer will you hear yourself saying, WTF? Why is this happening to me again?

“Here we/I go again!
”Is this situation EVER going to change?”
“If THEY/THIS would change my life would be so much better!”

You now know…..YOU are the change!!!!

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Here we go! Take a look at the area of life you want to change. What did you write were the facts about this area? Remember, you’re writing only the facts. For example, if I’m not happy with my body image, the facts would be: I’m 5’ 1”. I weigh 112 lbs. I’m 54. I have a current exercise schedule and routine. I pay attention to the food I eat….sometimes etc.

Now, for my fears, judgments and beliefs: I look old. I’m not pretty. I’ll never look the way I did when I was younger. Everyone looks better than I do. My muscle is gone forever. It’s impossible at my age to have the body I’d like to have. I can’t put on a bathing suit. What will people think, blah, blah, blah, fear and judgment, fear and judgment.

How did you do? Did you have a list of fears, judgments and beliefs that go on and on ad nauseum? We all do. It’s important to note this is the chatter that lives in your head…..24/7! This is where you spend the majority of your waking hours. You use your creative imagination to see, perceive, think and respond to a made up version of who you think you are.

Sounds a little crazy I know. Rather than acknowledging the facts and imagining a life the way you want it to be, you live in the imagined fears, judgments and beliefs of life, the way you don’t want them to be. Why would you do this????

I’m waiting on YOUR answer…..

Okie Dokie, are you ready to work on your issues? I am if you are. I love peeling the layers, digging into my trigger events and the issues that push my buttons. I’m clear that what I resist, persists, what I fail to look at will not go away, that God will continue putting things in front of me ‘til I get it right. How many ways can this be said? It all boils down to the same thing.

I create my reality by how I choose to see, perceive, think and respond. Me…I do it! And, I do all of it. So, when I hear myself saying, WTF? Why is this happening to me again? It’s a “note to Tuck”, to put my full attention on what’s in front of me and ask, What’s MY issue?. I’m the one who is triggered here. I’m the one in fear, judgment, anger and frustration. And, I’m the one with the opportunity to heal and change my reality, or not.

Okay, so what was the area of your life YOU chose to change? Was it finances, career, relationships, your body, health, personal or spiritual empowerment? It doesn’t matter what you chose, only that you realize one very important point:

If you don’t have the money you desire, it’s not about the money.
If you don’t have the body image you desire, it’s not about the diet.
If you don’t have the relationship or job you like, it’s not about your lover or your boss.

What it is about - is YOU. It’s about the reality you choose to imagine, dream up, focus on and think about. And then, you make a choice to live in fear of this imagined reality, as if it is true for you.

Sound weird? Grab your sheet where you chose the area of your life you wanted to change…and get ready to rock your world! 

Ever have these thoughts?

Here we/I go again!
Is this situation EVER going to change?
If THEY/THIS would change my life would be so much better!

These are every day thoughts for most individuals, usually accompanied by emotional outbursts, anger, bewilderment, confusion and a desperate cry to the Universe of WTF? Why is this happening to me again?

Seldom does it occur to us, when we reach this state, that we are the ongoing consistency of each situation and experience birthing these thoughts. An, “I’m right, you’re wrong” response is the typical trap we fall into. We identify “them” as the “guilty party” or ourselves as a “victim of circumstance”. Frustration, shame, blame, guilt, and at times, conflict ensue. In most cases, it NEVER occurs to us that we might be the ones setting up this whole scenario. And, that we might be the ones to fix it.

As weird as it might sound, your circumstances are yours to fix. You are responsible for the people, events and circumstances that show up in your life. You are the one creating your anger, frustration, conflict and pain?  You and your issues!

Got your attention? Tune in for Part 2 of WTF? Why is this happening to me again?!?